Tidbits & Tips {Holiday Planning}

Well it’s officially the holiday season! Thanksgiving is just around the corner, which means TONS of items are going on sale this week. Taking advantage of holiday sales can save you a pretty penny when it comes to your wedding – candles, sweets {for party favors}, and even party dresses will all be discounted by the end of this week. And if you’re like me and aren’t a fan of traditional bridesmaid dresses, hit the mall and check out stores like Macy’s, Dillard’s, and Nordstrom for some gorgeous {and not so typical} bridesmaid gowns that won’t break the bank.

Nordstrom Bridesmaid Dresses

Dresses from Nordstrom {all are 40% off online}

Tuesday Tips {Wrangling the Groomsmen}

Groomsmen – if you think you’re off the hook when it comes to wedding planning, think again =) There are plenty of things for you to help the groom with, and this is just a short list of your duties:

  • Wedding attire – you’ll be responsible for renting your own tux {from a specified store} and making sure it gets fitted with time to spare.
  • Attend all prewedding events – this includes engagement parties, couples showers, bachelor party, rehearsal dinner, etc.
  • Planning – you’ll also need to help the best man plan the bachelor party {which is usually pretty fun}.
  • Decorating the getaway car – at the end of the wedding night, you’ll need to help the best man + other groomsmen decorate the getaway car {just make sure the bride + groom can still get in and drive it}.
  • Be info central – you’ll need to be able to assist guests when they have questions about the event. Make sure you know where the nearest restroom facilities are, and how to get to the reception {if it’s offsite}.
  • Seat guests – make sure you’re at the ceremony location at least 45 minutes early. Part of your duties include escorting guests to their seat in a timely fashion.
  • Dancing – as a groomsmen, you may be asked to escort a bridesmaid into the reception, or to dance with single female guests. Make sure you bring your dancing shoes 😉

Tidbits & Tips { After the Wedding }

A lot of couples don’t think about what there is to do after the wedding’s over, so here’s a helpful {and quick} list of items to check off:

  • Clean and store your gown – this is a super important step if you want to save your gown for use at a later time. Make sure you take it to someone that specializes in cleaning gowns, have them stuff it with acid-free tissue, and store it in a large box. Once it’s sealed up, keep it in a cool dry place {not the basement or attic}.
  • Change your last name – make sure you update your license, passport, social security card, and credit cards.
  • Send thank you cards – this should be done within two months of the wedding date. To save some time, have your hubby write cards to his friends + family and you do yours.
  • Registry returns – if you’ve received multiples of the same gift, get started on returning/exchanging them. Each stores return policy will be different, so read each receipt carefully.

Trendy Thursday {Bouquet Alternatives}

It’s not often that you see a bride not carrying a lovely floral bouquet down the aisle. But I have to admit, that it’s a bit refreshing when you see a bride do something a bit outside the box when it comes to this bridal tradition. Here are some of my favorite alternative bouquet ideas:

  • Brooch bouquet – okay, so this is still a bouquet, but it’s a fun way to incorporate heirloom brooches from grandmothers, aunts, moms, etc.
  • Religious items – this one is my favorite =) Carrying a family bible or rosary can add lots of symbolism to your ceremony. There’s also an old Irish tradition that has the bride carrying a horseshoe for good luck {if that sounds a bit awkward, consider using a horseshoe shaped charm}.
  • Muffs – these are perfect for chilly winter days to keep your hands warm!